Did King Charles Tell Earl Spencer That Diana Would Be "Forgotten Soon Enough"?

Charles Spencer's memoir alleges then-Prince Charles told him days after Diana's 1997 death that the world would 'forget her soon enough.' Buckingham Palace, in a rare statement, neither confirmed nor denied the remark, citing grief's effect on memory.

Diana, Princess of Wales, dancing with John Travolta at the White House
Diana, Princess of Wales dancing with John Travolta at a White House dinner, November 9, 1985.

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Overview

Spencer's memoir, "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister" (Michael Joseph/Penguin Random House), began serialization/excerpting on September 16, 2026, ahead of its September 22, 2026 publication date. The book is Spencer's account of his life with Diana and the week of her death. This is a separate dispute from [case 31](/cases/31), which concerns King Charles's public statement restating Harry and Meghan's royal limits.

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3 timeline entries on this page. Dates: September 16, 2026 to September 22, 2026

  1. September 2026

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    1. "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister" excerpt reveals Charles's alleged remark

      Source release

      Charles Spencer's memoir "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister" began serialization, including the claim that then-Prince Charles told him "we'll forget her soon enough" in the days after Diana's death.

      [01]Earl Spencer Claims Charles Told Him They Would "Forget" Diana "Soon Enough"

      Source excerpt

      He unleashed down the phone what I have always taken to be his pent-up contempt for Diana, and his horror that the world was so bowled over by her death. "Rest assured," he hissed, "we'll forget her soon enough!"

      IBTimes UK report quoting the memoir "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister" directly: the alleged phone call in which then-Prince Charles told Spencer "we'll forget her soon enough," and Spencer's reply.

    2. Buckingham Palace issues statement on Spencer's claim

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      Buckingham Palace issued a rare on-record statement responding to Spencer's claim without directly confirming or denying it.

      [02]King Charles responds to Charles Spencer's claims about Princess Diana in a rare statement

      Source excerpt

      While we do not comment on books as a matter of principle, His Majesty is mindful that the pain of fraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgment and color memory in ways others do not recognize, even many years after such a loss.

      Fox News report giving the full text of Buckingham Palace's statement responding to Spencer's memoir claim.

    3. "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister" publishes

      "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister" is scheduled for publication.

      [03]King Charles responds to criticism from Princess Diana's brother

      ABC News Australia report corroborating the quote and Palace statement, and identifying Daily Mail as the serialization outlet and September 22, 2026 as the book's publication date.

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Earl Spencer Claims Charles Told Him They Would "Forget" Diana "Soon Enough"

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"He unleashed down the phone what I have always taken to be his pent-up contempt for Diana, and his horror that the world was so bowled over by her death. "Rest assured," he hissed, "we'll forget her soon enough!""

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IBTimes UK report quoting the memoir "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister" directly: the alleged phone call in which then-Prince Charles told Spencer "we'll forget her soon enough," and Spencer's reply.

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King Charles responds to criticism from Princess Diana's brother

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ABC News Australia report corroborating the quote and Palace statement, and identifying Daily Mail as the serialization outlet and September 22, 2026 as the book's publication date.

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King Charles responds to Charles Spencer's claims about Princess Diana in a rare statement

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"While we do not comment on books as a matter of principle, His Majesty is mindful that the pain of fraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgment and color memory in ways others do not recognize, even many years after such a loss."

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Fox News report giving the full text of Buckingham Palace's statement responding to Spencer's memoir claim.

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