Spencer says Charles sounded "giddily elated – like a lottery winner" after Diana's death

Charles SpencerAuthor of "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister" and brother of Diana, Princess of Wales, in excerpts published by the Daily Mail

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In further excerpts from his memoir "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister," published by the Daily Mail on September 17, Charles Spencer describes the telephone call he says he received from the then Prince Charles after Diana's death in 1997. He writes that, unlike other callers, Charles sounded giddily elated, like a lottery winner, and that the call was strangely matter-of-fact given the enormity of what had happened. He says Charles told him he had informed William and Harry of their mother's death that morning in their bedrooms at Balmoral. Spencer adds that, looking back, he suspects Charles's first reaction was to consider how the death might free him to marry Camilla rather than to register the loss. The account is Spencer's recollection and the inference about Charles's state of mind is expressly his own supposition; neither is established here.

“Unlike my other callers, who were stunned, barely able to articulate their condolences and offers of help, he sounded giddily elated – like a lottery winner, I remember thinking at the time. … It all sounded strangely matter-of-fact, given the enormity of the disaster. … Looking back now, I suspect the prince's first reaction must have been to think more of how this event might free him to marry the woman he loved, rather than appreciating the loss of one he did not.”

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Earl Spencer's memoir claims about King Charles's reaction to Diana's death

In his memoir "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister," serialised from September 2026, Charles Spencer makes a series of claims about how the then Prince Charles behaved towards him after Diana's death in 1997. He writes that Charles told him by phone, "Rest assured, we'll forget her soon enough," and, in later excerpts, that Charles sounded "giddily elated – like a lottery winner" during the call and that he now suspects Charles was weighing how the death might free him to marry Camilla. Buckingham Palace, in a rare on-record statement, did not directly confirm or deny the quotation, saying instead that "the pain of fraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgment and colour memory," and declined to respond again to the later claims. The dispute is whether Spencer's account of Charles's words and demeanour is accurate.

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ITV News report of September 17, 2026, 7:37 PM on further excerpts from Charles Spencer's memoir "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister," published by the Daily Mail that day. The passages quoted describe the telephone call Spencer says he received from the then Prince Charles after Diana's death in 1997. This is a separate allegation from the "forgotten soon enough" quotation already recorded in this case, drawn from the same book. Buckingham Palace referred ITV News to its statement of the previous day rather than issuing a new one, indicating its position was unchanged. ITV's royal editor Chris Ship is quoted saying the Palace is unlikely to fall into a pattern of responding to repeated claims from the memoir. The quoted passages are Spencer's recollection and his inference about Charles's state of mind; neither is established here, and the book is not published until September 22.

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Before the quotation

Excerpts published the previous day carried Spencer's claim that Charles told him by telephone, "Rest assured, we'll forget her soon enough," which is this case's central quotation. Buckingham Palace responded with a rare on-record statement saying fraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgment and colour memory.

After the quotation

Asked about the new claims, Buckingham Palace referred ITV News to that same statement rather than issuing a fresh one. ITV's royal editor Chris Ship said the Palace is unlikely to fall into a pattern of responding to repeated claims from the book. "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister" is due to publish on September 22.

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Why this label?

Spencer is the author of that account and here extends it, characterising Charles's demeanour on the call as elation and imputing a self-interested motive. That is an adverse judgment on the conduct under scrutiny, made by its principal accuser. The closest competing label is “Challenged the characterization”, which is how Buckingham Palace's reply (901) is classified; it does not fit Spencer, who is not disputing a description but advancing one.

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“I have to say here and now, I worked for the King for five years. I was in very close proximity of him. I was his spokesman for five years. I do not believe he ever said that, let alone think that. It's just not in his DNA. He wouldn't even think anything like that. He wasn't capable of thinking like that. And I think Charles Spencer really has got an axe to grind. And you have to ask, why after 29 years? Why didn't he do it, say, on the 25th anniversary of Diana's death? Has he been harboring it for 29 years? I really do not understand why he's coming out with it now. I mean, yeah, it's a good line. It sells books and the books will fly off the shelves if people indeed want to read it or believe it. And he'll make a lot of money. It's interesting, isn't it? He once said in 1998 in a television interview, I will not profit on my sister. And what is he doing? Just that.”
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