Kate Staunton says others aware of the alleged relationship said nothing

Kate StauntonFormer RNZAF flight sergeant, in a letter to Davies quoted by the NZ Herald

Staunton writes that people aware of Davies's alleged relationship at 40 Squadron said nothing and left the woman involved to deal with the aftermath alone.

“Others who were aware of the alleged inappropriate conduct said nothing, choosing instead to stand by and allow the young woman to deal with the aftermath entirely on her own.”

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Open source (opens in a new tab)The Chief of Defence, the alleged affair and the letter he read before he quitOpening section on Staunton's letter; Goldsmith's answer on NZDF culture; NZDF and Hague responses near the end
Air Marshal Tony Davies
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Where this statement fits

Tony Davies resignation: vetting and disclosure questions

Tony Davies resigned as New Zealand's defence chief after acknowledging an undisclosed inappropriate relationship. Former Defence Minister Ron Mark says the Public Service Commission and military leadership failed the Minister. The NZ Herald reports a letter sent to Davies days earlier about an alleged 2006 relationship. NZDF and Defence Minister Paul Goldsmith cite an Inspector-General referral and give no further detail.

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The Chief of Defence, the alleged affair and the letter he read before he quit (opens in a new tab)Opening section on Staunton's letter; Goldsmith's answer on NZDF culture; NZDF and Hague responses near the end

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The Herald reports that former RNZAF flight sergeant Kate Staunton wrote to Davies days before his resignation about a relationship he was alleged to have had in 2006 with a woman under his command at 40 Squadron. It reports that the woman confirmed the letter's account that she was formally investigated and later left the service, and that it understands the relationship was denied at the time. The article also covers Staunton's separate complaint about how NZDF handled another alleged relationship. NZDF said it would answer the Herald's questions in due course, and the article identifies lawyer Matthew Hague as acting for Staunton.

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Before the quotation

Staunton, who served 26 years in the RNZAF, wrote to Davies days before he resigned. The Herald reports that her letter referred to a relationship he was alleged to have had in 2006 with a woman under his command at 40 Squadron, and that the woman confirmed the letter's account that she was formally investigated and later left the service. The Herald understands the relationship was denied at the time.

After the quotation

Staunton told the Herald she wanted the circumstances examined properly and fairly, without anyone being presumed guilty. NZDF said it would answer the Herald's questions in due course.

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Condemned

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Why this label?

Relative to how integrity information about Davies was handled, Staunton criticizes people who she says knew of the alleged conduct and stayed silent. That is a direct criticism of the handling rather than a question or a conditional view, so condemns fits.

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