Gilbert Arenas says he is sorry if Stephen Curry is offended but repeats that his wife's words are the family's only blemish
Gilbert ArenasFormer NBA player and host of Gil's Arena, on his show
Responding to Curry's video on Gil's Arena, Arenas says Curry never gets in trouble and that if you have to judge the family, the only blemish is the things his wife has said. He then says he is sorry if Curry is offended.
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Ayesha Curry is the only blemish on the Curry family because she does not act like the wives of other NBA superstars, whom the public wants to see but not to hear from.
“If you gotta judge this family, the only blemish is the things that his wife has said, there's nothing Steph has ever said. ... I'm sorry if he's offended.”
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Gilbert Arenas calls Ayesha Curry the "only blemish" in the Curry family; Stephen Curry calls out Arenas, Nick Young and Emmanuel Acho
On November 7, 2026, in a segment of the We Said What We Said show about Ayesha Curry's on-screen kiss with co-star Matthew Daddario in the Roku Channel film Second Chance Holiday, former NBA player Gilbert Arenas said Stephen Curry is the definition of a father and that "The only blemish in the family is the wife, in a sense," because she does not act like other superstars' wives. His co-host Nick Young mostly agreed. A day earlier, former NFL player Emmanuel Acho had said on his Speakeasy show that he would not be comfortable watching a partner kiss someone else on screen. On November 11, Curry posted a video on Instagram naming Nick, Gil and Emmanuel and saying the talk about his wife "kind of speaks to a bigger conversation on how you view women in this world and what they're allowed and what they're not allowed to do." Within hours, on Gil's Arena, Young apologized and Arenas said he was sorry if Curry was offended while repeating that the only blemish was the things his wife had said. Arenas and Young apologized again in an episode released that evening, Pacific time, and Acho apologized on his show the next day. Sports journalist Jemele Hill called Arenas's remarks disrespectful.
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Clip from Gil's Arena in which the hosts play Stephen Curry's Instagram video. Arenas says Curry never gets in trouble and that if you have to judge the family, the only blemish is the things his wife has said, then says he is sorry if Curry is offended. Young apologizes to Curry.
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ClutchPoints post quoting Arenas and Young on Gil's Arena, responding to Curry's video, with the clip attached.
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After the hosts play Curry's Instagram video, Arenas says Curry does not get in trouble, says the right things and that the family is good.
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Nick Young tells Curry he is sorry and that he loves him.
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Arenas repeats that the only blemish on the Curry family is what Ayesha Curry has said, then says he is sorry if Stephen Curry is offended, so we labeled it Mixed or conditional.
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Read the full caseJemele Hill calls Gilbert Arenas's remarks about Ayesha Curry wholly disrespectful
“What Gilbert Arenas said about Ayesha was wholly disrespectful. It also was disrespectful to use Cookie Johnson as an example of shut up and play your role. Complete ignorance.”Read statement
Stephen Curry says the podcast talk about his wife reflects how the hosts view women
“kind of speaks to a bigger conversation on how you view women in this world and what they're allowed and what they're not allowed to do”Read statement
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